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A 10-minute preparation routine

How to prepare for a 1:1 meeting in 10 minutes

Prepare for a 1:1 by reviewing mutual commitments, choosing the few concrete changes that matter, writing two neutral questions, and deciding what support or decision you may need to provide.

This guide is for people managers who want a focused conversation aid—not a complete meeting summary or a hidden assessment of the employee.

Prepare from evidence, not assumptions. Notes and observed events can suggest a useful question; they cannot tell you what someone thinks or feels.

The five-step, ten-minute routine

Stop when the ten minutes are up. The goal is enough context for a better conversation, not exhaustive recall.

  1. Minute 1

    Name the purpose
    Write one sentence about what this conversation most needs to accomplish for the person you manage. Use their current context, not a generic agenda.

  2. Minutes 2–4

    Review commitments in both directions
    Check what you promised, what they promised, and what remains unresolved. Put your own missed follow-up at the top of the list.

  3. Minutes 5–6

    Look for meaningful change
    Choose concrete events since the last conversation: a new blocker, progress worth recognizing, a changed deadline, or a repeated concern.

  4. Minutes 7–8

    Turn evidence into questions
    Write two neutral questions that let the person add context. Prefer “What changed?” over a conclusion about motivation, mood, or performance.

  5. Minutes 9–10

    Choose one managerial decision or support
    Decide what you may need to clarify, unblock, delegate, protect, or follow up on. Leave room to revise that choice during the conversation.

Worked example

This is a transparent synthetic example. It is not based on a real employee or customer record.

A manager is preparing for a weekly 1:1 with an engineer who owns a delayed migration and asked for help with a dependency last week.

Purpose

Understand the dependency and agree on useful manager support.

Commitments

I promised to get an answer from Platform; they promised to revise the rollout date.

Evidence

The Platform answer arrived Tuesday; the rollout date remains unchanged in the plan.

Questions

What changed after Tuesday? What support would make the next step easier?

Decision or support

Offer to resolve ownership with Platform, but confirm that this is the actual blocker first.

The preparation does not conclude that the engineer is behind or disengaged. It identifies what the manager knows, what remains uncertain, and where support may help.

Common preparation mistakes

  • Writing a complete status report instead of choosing what deserves conversation time.
  • Listing only the employee’s commitments and forgetting the manager’s own promises.
  • Turning sparse notes into a diagnosis of emotion, intent, health, motivation, or performance.
  • Arriving with a fixed verdict instead of questions that allow new context to change the plan.
  • Filling every minute and leaving no room for the direct report to shape the agenda.

Evidence and privacy boundaries

  • Use only work context you are entitled to access and that is relevant to the conversation.
  • Separate confirmed facts from interpretations, and make uncertainty visible in your questions.
  • Do not use preparation as employee scoring, covert monitoring, or an unofficial performance review.
  • Keep sensitive notes proportionate, correctable, and subject to your organization’s retention and privacy rules.

Free private tool

Put the routine into one printable page

The worksheet uses the same five prompts. Nothing is sent to ModoPersona, saved to storage, or gated behind an account.

Keep the useful context between 1:1s

ModoPersona preserves manager-confirmed commitments and evidence after each conversation, then brings relevant context back when it is time to prepare. You review the evidence and make every managerial decision yourself.